Since the rise of the Internet and E-mail, much of our human interaction has centered on the written word. On the plus side, chubby people are reading more now than ever before, which makes me happy as a writer. On the other hand, some plus size people are not good at making full use of this medium. Unfortunately, if people glance at your Zoosk and are not impressed by your ability to communicate, they may never see you in real life and realize what a great person you are. So let's help you strengthen your writing and texting games.
Grammar, people!
I can't emphasize it enough. Most fat people are tired of poor grammar. I'm not talking about the occasional spelling mistake or the occasional use of there instead of their. "These mistakes happen. I'm talking about serious spelling mistakes, a lack of punctuation and capital letters, and other obvious signs of disregard for the English language.
"Hi, how are you? I browsed it and noticed your BBW dating profile, which aroused my interest, because I like your profile, you sound so interesting and look so cute. I hope our curvy dating relationship will last, so if you are looking, I hope you can reply to me
There are a lot of errors in this message, but just the grammar will make me run away.
Try to use emotional language
I know it's not easy to write for a virtual stranger. This is especially true for men because we don't really learn how to express our feelings. But if you only use logical, direct language, you won't trigger any emotion.
No: "on weekends, I like to go hiking."
Yes: "I am always happy when I can escape the pressure of the city and go to the beautiful nature to relax."
Beware of teasing others
Yes, teasing is fun and provocative, but it's easy to misunderstand when it's read in plain English. It's much harder for readers to discern your tone, and words that might sound funny in person can sound mean online. Sure, you're only joking when you make fun of her love for Justin Bieber, but without tone and body language, you sound judgmental and mean. You have very little time to interact; Don't take too big a risk.
It's interesting because you can see his reaction.
But when you read it online, it might sound more like this:
Make it easier for them to respond
Ideally, you want your back-and-forth interactions to be fun and easy. So make it easier for them to respond to you. This is not the time to go into a 20-minute email discussion. If they respond quickly, they are more likely to keep the conversation going. Remember, they may get a lot of email, so if you take too long to respond, they may leave your email for later and forget about it.
No: "yes, the weekend was great! I watched the debate. I can't believe this election! So, what do you think of immigration reform?"
Yes: "yes, the weekend was great! I watched the debate. I can't believe this election! I have to clean my taste buds with some chocolate chip cookie ice cream! What's your favorite flavor of ice cream?"